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Great interviews with extraordinary people. This is the archive of all our past episodes. Here you will find the audio podcast as well as the full transcript of the episode.
Terry Tucker – What you leave behind is what you weave in the hearts of others
Terry Tucker is a motivational speaker and author. He explains why you should ”Be part of something bigger than yourself”, why you should “Control your mind or it will control...
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Brad Chan – Success is intentional
On this episode Brad Chan explains the importance of “living your values” why being an Introvert is a superpower” and how “Challenges are opportunities” along with more lessons learned. Hosted...
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Mitch Bolnick – “Respect your elders” is a cliche, but listening to them might save you
Mitch Bolnick is a CEO, Author and Mentor. He explains how “Good communication is at the heart of all success”, how “Loyalty comes from trust” and why we should “Plan...
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Zach Schaefer – Think in terms of time design, not time management.
Zach Schaefer is a CEO, Founder, Speaker, Author, and Professor. He shares how to “Live a meaningful life”, how “Forgiveness massages a pulled mental muscle” and tells us why we...
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Zoe Fragou – Stop starting. Start finishing
Zoe Fragou is an organizational Psychologist and explains why” everything is a negotiation”, why you should “focus on your strengths”, how “pettiness stalls your career” and much more. Hosted by...
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Martin Salama-Reframe Your Meaning Of L.I.F.E
Martin Salama is a CEO, Founder and Business Coach. He explains why we should “Reframe our meaning of L.I.F.E”, he discloses the “true meaning of Rationalize and how it's self-sabotaging...
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100th Episode – 1000 Lessons Learned
We’ve made it to 100 episodes. That’s 1000 Lessons Learned! Our hosts Diana White, Siebe Van Der Zee, Jeffery Wang and Robert Hossary are joined by team member Yi Wang...
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Faris Aranki – What are your 3 adjectives?
Faris Aranki tells us why we should “Run towards the wrecking ball”, reminds us that the “Platinum rule is better than the golden rule “and asks us “what are your...
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Dr Nora Gold – Create Space For Creativity
Dr Nora Gold asks us “If not now, when?”, explains why we need to “be kind to ourselves”, that “You define success” and more. Hosted by Siebe Van Der Zee.
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Dr Beverly Browning – DON’T isolate yourself when you are going through hard or trying times
Dr Beverly Browning shares her Do’s and Don’ts lessons; "DO appreciate yourself", "DON’T be hard on yourself when you make mistakes", "Do celebrate yourself" and more. Hosted by Diana White
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Dr Dilip Jeste and Dr Samantha Boardman – Build the Habit of “Good Enough”
Dr Samantha Boardman and Dr Dilip Jeste discuss the techniques you can use to be wiser. Hosted by Duff Watkins
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Karen Loon – Don’t be scared to look in the mirror
Karen Loon shares her lessons about how "Our future is shaped by our past", that "Imposter syndrome is normal", why you should not "be scared to look in the mirror"...
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Link Duarte – Don’t let your mistakes ruin what you could be.
Link Duarte discusses why we should "Strive for excellence, not perfection " That we need to "Live your bliss " and explains why you shouldn't "let your mistakes ruin what...
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William Sarni – The Power of Unreasonable People
William Sarni discusses why we should "Do good things" That we need to "Learn to say No or Hell Yeah" and explains the power of unreasonable people. Hosted by Siebe...
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Keith Rowe – Don’t just talk. Question, Listen, and Watch!
Keith Rowe explains how "EQ Trumps IQ Every Time", that "There Is A Difference Between Leadership Versus Management" and tells us about "The New Business Opportunity - Customer Service". Hosted...
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Ron Higgs – Don’t call yourself an expert unless your peers describe you that way
Ron Higgs tells us that "You can learn from anyone", that you should "Solve more problems than you create" and why we should "Embrace gratitude". Hosted by Diana White
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Baishakhi Connor – Workaholism is an addiction, don’t wear it as a badge of honour
Baishakhi Connor explains how " It all starts with belief", why you should "Chase your dreams, but don’t become captive to them" and that "Things happen, it isn’t the end...
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Ellen Ruppel Shell – Question Received Wisdom
Ellen Ruppel Shell tells us why you "Should rise above your assumptions", why we should "Question received wisdom" and " Don’t take business matters personally " hosted by Duff Watkins.
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Rachna Nath – Patience is a virtue but can become a vice if you practice it too much
Rachna Nath tells us why we " Should believe that destiny will lead us", why we "Shouldn't be afraid of failure" and that " If you believe in something, make...
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Oliver Burkeman – Everyone is totally just winging it
Oliver Burkeman tells us how "The ability to tolerate minor discomfort is a superpower" why we should "Let things take the time they take" why it's important to "Seek enlargement...
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Alberto Esparza – Leadership is defined by the community
Alberto Esparza discusses why you should not be "Afraid to Fail", how "It's Never Personal" and why you should "Embrace Negativity" hosted by Siebe Van Der Zee
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Dr Helen Holton – Forgiveness frees you to live stronger
Dr Helen Holton tells us why "Dreams deferred don't mean dreams denied", how "We're not born resilient; but we build it throughout our lives" and how "Forgiveness frees you to...
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Stan Rodski – Your Current View of Situation Does Not Equal The Best View of Situation
Stan Rodski shows us how to "Recalibrate our brain"; shares how to "Harness your brain power" and explains the power of the "Napucino". Hosted by Duff Watkins.
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Denis Leclerc – Don’t judge people too fast, we have more in common than we are different.
Professor Denis Leclerc tells us why you should “Learn something new every day”; why you should ”Learn to slow down; why it’s important not to “judge people too fast” and more....
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Dr Belle Liang and Tim Klein – Listen for YOUR call, not someone else’s
Dr Belle Liang and Tim Klein share with us the reason we should "Adopt a purpose mindset, not a passion or performance mindset"; how we can "Add value as a...
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James Pennebaker – Be Your Own Therapist With WORDS
Professor James Pennebaker tells us how we can use words to better understand ourselves and others. He shares how expressive writing can be a tool to understand trauma. Hosted by...
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Gaj Ravichandra – Assume There Is 1% Of Truth In Everything
Gaj Ravichandra speaks with Jeffery Wang about why you should "Run towards success rather than away from failure", why you should always "Assume there is 1% of truth in everything...
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Dr Joel Martin – The most important superpowers you have is the ability to choose
Dr Joel Martin shares why "Feedback is a gift"; what your greatest "Superpower" is; why you should "Learn to love and laugh a lot"; and more. Hosted by Diana White
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André Haspels – Give people trust and space
Ambassador André Haspels talks about why you should "Savor unique experiences"; the benefits of "Being modest" why you should "Make others look good" and more. Hosted by Siebe Van Der...
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Bob Mankoff – Work in batches of 10
Bob Mankoff, Cartoonist and Author talks about why you should "Work in batches of 10", why "Talent is the ticket but that's all " and the why you should "Appreciate...
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Steve Okun – Knowing your value – lets you advocate for yourself
Steve Okun, CEO and Media Commentator talks about why you "Should make yourself unique", why "No job is beneath you" and the importance of "betting on yourself". Hosted by Robert...
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Héctor Colón-Listening is more important than providing feedback
Héctor Colón is a Servant-CEO and shares his lessons about how "Humility is at the core of serving others", why "Perseverance is about not giving up" and "Listening is more...
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Megumi Miki – Fitting in is overrated but standing out can be hard work
Megumi Miki tells us why " Fitting in is overrated", why " There are no ‘bad’ emotions", and why you should " Get comfortable with solitude" and other lessons it...
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Dr. CJ Cornell – If you want someone to rave about your idea, call your mother
Dr CJ Cornell shares his experience as an entrepreneur and tells us why we should "Be Up Front" why we "Don't play hard to get" and "If you have to...
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Professor Howard Nusbaum – You won’t be wise without understanding others
Professor Howard C. Nusbaum shares why " It’s wiser to listen than to speak ", how " Curiosity fuels wisdom ", how " Wisdom is a skill you can learn...
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Paul Penzone – Leave people with the feeling they are respected
Sheriff Paul Penzone shares why "Authority is privilege, not entitlement", the importance to "Never forget others opened the door for you to walk through", why you should "Listen more, talk...
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Eric Miller-Know Your Own Bias
Eric Miller, CEO, Entrepreneur, Director speaks with us why it's important "To learn your tools", "Never to understate the importance of a network", why we should "Know our own bias"...
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David Redhill – Be a sponge, a squirrel and be a thief.
David Redhill speaks to us about why you should "never say no to opportunity", the importance of " Being a sponge, a squirrel and be a thief" and why you "shouldn't...
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Robyn Henderson – Be clear on your Why? What? How?
Robyn has authored and contributed to more than 30 books on networking, business and career development and self-esteem building over the last 20+ years. She speaks with us about why...
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Indira Jeffrey – Empowering Women Means Empowering Whole Communities
Indira Jeffrey is a global leader for women empowerment, strategic planner, and innovator. She shares her wisdom and tells us why you should " Get out of your comfort zone",...
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Robin Reed – Stress Is Not A Badge Of Honour
Robin Reed is the co-founder and Principal with EmFluent, an Entrepreneur, professional speaker and coach. He speaks with us about why "Asking For Help Is A Strategy", why you should...
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Rosaly Lopes – A Little Self-Promotion Is Fine
Dr Rosaly M. C. Lopes is Directorate Scientist for the Planetary Science Directorate and a Senior Research Scientist at NASA's Jet Propulsion Laboratory she tells us why we should "...
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Beng Yeoh – You Can Buy Talent But You Can’t Buy Integrity
Dr Beng Yeoh a board director and a has been a senior business leader for over 40 years. He shares why you should "Choose And Follow A Reliable Compass", how...
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MaryAnn Miller – Your Toughest Competition Is You
MaryAnn Miller is an accomplished c-suite leader. She shares why you should "Say Yes To New Opportunities ", how "Your Reality Can Be Your Dream " and that "Your Toughest...
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Brett Gilliland – What Got You Here Will Not Get You There
Brett Gilliland is the Co-Founder and CEO, Elite Entrepreneurs. He tells us about "The Power Of Co-Creating A Future WITH Your Team", the "The Best Way To Get Happy Customers"...
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Niels Marquardt – If You Can’t Stay Out Of The Way, You Have Hired The Wrong People
Ambassador Niels Marquardt is a former American diplomat who now serves as the first-ever diplomat in residence at Lewis & Clark College. He shares lessons about the "90% rule" ,why...
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Jeff Bleich – There is no good relationship advice
Jeff Bleich is the Chief Legal Office at Cruise speaks to us about why you should "Be Useful ", how "Nothing Appreciates Like Appreciation "and other lessons it took him...
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Robert Hossary – It’s not who you know. It’s who knows you!
Robert Hossary has been in executive management for more than 30 years. He shares why "It's not who you know but who knows you", how to "become indispensable" and the...
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Cindy Banton-As Women Leaders, Femininity Is An Asset, Not A Detriment
Dr Cindy Banton is a Founder, CEO, Author and Board Director. She tells us why we should "Take risks!", why we should "Know our value and worth" and why "As...
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Katie and Gay Hendricks – Authenticity is Sexy
Dr Gay Hendricks and his wife Dr Kathlyn Hendricks have written 40+ books, trained thousands of coaches, appeared on Oprah, and hosted seminars around the globe. In this episode they...
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Andrew Browning – There is nothing new under the sun
Dr Andrew Browning AM is an Australian trained obstetrician who has spent his entire professional career volunteering in Africa as a medical missionary specializing in obstetric fistula surgery. Listen to...
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Arthur Valkieser – Never Give Up. Resistance Belongs To Innovation
Arthur Valkieser is the CEO and Co-Founder of Hydraloop. Arthur speaks to us about why " earning money is never the goal". why you should " believe in what you...
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Don Peppers – Jobs deliver pay checks, Careers deliver purpose
Don Peppers is a best-selling author, blogger, widely-acclaimed keynote speaker and global CX authority. He speaks to us about how "Life is not a contest, no one takes “first place” ",...
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Jeffery Wang – Finding fulfilment is more important than happiness
Jeffery is the founder of Professional Development Forum, and a regular host on 10 Lessons it Took Me 50 Years to Learn. Jeff tells us why we should "Run towards...
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Conrad Taylor – Nothing beats perseverance
Conrad Taylor grew up in Guyana, South America. Now a retired executive. Conrad has over thirty-five years of hands-on experience leading change in the United States. He shares his story...
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50th Episode of 10 Lessons it Took Me 50 Years to Learn
Well we made it to 50 Episodes! That's 500 lessons that we have shared with the world. In this episode we share some of your feedback and comments. Thank you...
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Barry Nalebuff-Good people act Badly because of wrong incentives
Barry Nalebuff is Milton Steinbach Professor at Yale SOM where for thirty years he has taught negotiation, innovation, strategy, and game theory. He speaks with us on why "Important projects...
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Robert Lustig-Speak to the ventriloquist, not the dummy
Dr Robert Lustig has fostered a global discussion of metabolic health and nutrition. He speaks with us abut why you should "speak to the ventriloquist and not the dummy", how...
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Jim Carroll – Don’t tell me how good you are – Show me
Jim Carroll is one of Australia’s most experienced media executives. Jim shares why it's important to "Be decisive and organized", why you should "Listen widely" and the importance of "Being...
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Tommy Tomlinson – Nobody does great work alone
Tommy Tomlinson is a Journalist, Author and Podcaster and tells us why "you should keep your word"; how "life is like baseball" and why shouldn't "spend time with jerks". Hosted...
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Bas Boorsma – The Current Paradigm Shift:The Network Paradigm
Bas Boorsma has been specialising in smart cities for over 20 years. He shares with us "The magic of conflict resolution", why we should learn to "Be comfortable with being...
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Ellen Langer – 1+1 doesn’t always equal 2
Ellen Langer is a professor in the Psychology Department at Harvard University and she speaks with us about how "Certainty is a mindless illusion" why " 1 + 1 doesn't...
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Mark Gell – Don’t believe everything you have heard
Mark Gell is the partner of a PR Agency Reputation Edge. Mark tells us why it's important that we "Listen and don't talk", how we should ask ourselves "What would...
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Raj Raghunathan-If you’re so smart, why aren’t you happy?
Raj Raghunathan, author of “If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t You Happy?” is currently professor of marketing at the University of Texas School of Business. In this episode he tells...
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Ori Eisen – You can do anything if you don’t care who gets the credit
Ori Eisen has spent the last two decades fighting online crime and he is respected for his business knowledge and leadership. In this episode, Ori tells us why you must...
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Julian Zelizer – Just START! You don’t need all the answers to begin
Julian Zelizer is a professor of political history and an author at Princeton University and the co-host of the podcast Politics & Polls. He speaks with us about how "Life...
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Mary Labrie – To lead you have to learn to follow
Mary Labrie is a writer and producer of radio, podcast and film. Mary is Director and Principal of strategy consulting firm, Clear Advantage. She discusses why "We all respond to...
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Siebe Van Der Zee – Get over it! Don’t create mental barriers for yourself.
Siebe Van Der Zee is President of Vanderzee & Associates, Executive Search & Coaching. For 28 years, Siebe has served as Honorary Consul of the Kingdom of the Netherlands in...
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Peter Thornhill – Fear is based on ignorance; don’t be frightened, be smart
Peter Thornhill speaks to us about: why you “Don’t stay in jobs you don’t like”, why you should “Rent your lifestyle" and how to “Make money your slave” along with...
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David Chalke – Become your own disruptor
David Chalke is one of Australia’s leading Social Analysts. He speaks with us about R E S P E C T, why we should "Build a shed" and why it's...
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Dilip Jeste – Anyone and Everyone Can Become WISER
Dr. Dilip V. Jeste is the author of 'Wiser: the scientific roots of wisdom' and speaks to us about how "If you think you’re WISE, you aren’t" and tells us...
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Special Episode – What is Wisdom?
In this special episode the four of us, Jeffery Wang, Siebe Van Der Zee, Dr. Duff Watkins, and Robert Hossary discuss the deep topic of wisdom. We ask the question...
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Niki Luijsterburg – Leaders are storytellers
LT COL Joost ‘Niki’ Luijsterburg speaks to us this week about how the best "leaders are story tellers", how there are "only two intrinsic motivators - Love or Fear" ,...
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Floyd Ormsbee – Never let them see you sweat
Dr Floyd Ormsbee shares some valuable lessons with us in this episode. Why you should "never let them see you sweat". That you can "disagree but learn from each other"...
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Andrew Bacevich – Never feel sorry for the people in charge
In this episode, Andrew Bacevich shares with us why "Ambition causes blindness", why you should "Never feel sorry for the people in charge" and describes the "Greatest sin of all"....
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Allan Parker – Agreement is always available
Allan Parker explains why "you hear more when you're honest", how "Words produce predictable outcomes" and eight other gems of wisdom. Hosted by Duff Watkins
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Vikas Tiku – Career highlights don’t get on your tombstone
Vikas Tiku explains why you should "listen more than you speak", why once you've made a decision you shouldn't second guess" and that "your career highlights will never make it...
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Jim Longley – Life is not fair, but don’t just ‘suck it up’
Jim Longley tells us how to use "The ten-year rule", how "Life is not fair, but don’t just ‘suck it up’" and why "A life of service is the only...
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Jeremy Richman – Buy now or…
Jeremy Richman shares why "People don’t have to like you to respect you", why you should "Let a good cause find you and embrace it" and "What you say may...
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Steven Zylstra – Mistake, rinse, don’t repeat
This week Steven Zylstra reminds us "Yes, Dad really was right", why there's "No need to go it alone" and 8 other lessons he has learned over 50 Years. Hosted...
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Matt Doherty – The Six Knows of Leadership
Matt Doherty explains the "Six Knows of Leadership", how "Forgiveness is how to free yourself" and why you should "Recruit Your Personal Board of Directors" among his 10Lessons. Hosted by...
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Andrew Tyndale – Play the Long Game
Andrew Tyndale speaks with Jeffery Wang this week. Explaining his lessons of why you should "Find your tribe", the power of "Filling you heart with gratitude" and the benefit of...
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Eddie Grobler – What’s Your Decency Quotient
This week Duff speaks with Eddie Grobler. Eddie shares how "the answer is in your hands", why you shouldn't "Jerk the knee or shoot the mouth" and why "Your mindset...
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Diana White – Be prepared to walk away.
This week Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Diana White. Diana has a wealth of experience and eagerly shares her 10 lessons with Siebe. Dianna tells us why we should...
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John Collee – Find Somebody Who’s Done it Before
"Find someone who's done it before," says JOHN COLLEE, Oscar nominated writer, on this episode of 10 Lessons it Took Me 50 Years to Learn. Also, 'why we have 2...
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Ten Lessons – Recap Ep 13 – 16
In this episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary review episodes that featured Alan Haselden, Bill Guy, Guillaume Lucci and Jacob Butler....
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Jacob Butler – Don’t Wait for Change
This week Siebe brings you 10 Lessons from Jacob Butler. Jacob shares lessons that his culture has taught him. Lessons like why you should "Invest in lasting impact" and why...
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Guillaume Lucci – Leave the money…take the opportunity
Duff Watkins interviews Guillaume Lucci this week to discover 10 more lessons to share with you. Guillaume tells us "why we should "Get ready to fail", why "Perfect is a...
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Bill Guy – The Hiring Process is Broken
Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Bill Guy this week. Bill discusses the lessons he learned throughout his career in Executive Search and Consulting and shares insights into why "the...
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Alan Haselden – Can We Just Get to the Point?
Duff's guest this week is Alan Haselden. Alan had a long and successful corporate career before entering into local politics. Alan shares over 50 years of lessons with us such...
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Ten Lessons – Recap Ep 9-12
In this episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary review episodes that featured Alan Kilfoyle, Garry Browne, Narelle Hooper and Brad Casper....
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Brad Casper – Leadership is not a Title
On this episode Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Brad Casper and learns some valuable lessons. Brad tells us that "The best way to predict the future is to create...
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Narelle Hooper – Look out for Landmines
This week Jeffery Wang speaks with Narelle Hooper one of Australia's leading journalists. Narelle discusses her valuable insight that she has gleaned over her career. Listen to hear why you...
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Garry Browne – Learn to be Vulnerable
Listen to Duff discuss the 10 lessons that Garry Browne learned over his 50 years. Invaluable information such as: " To be the fastest doesn’t mean you’re the winner" ,...
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Alan Kilfoyle – You Can Recover
This week Robert Hossary speaks with our guest Alan Kilfoyle who shares some of his valuable lessons that helped him navigate his career and life for the past 5 plus...
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Ten Lessons – Recap Ep 5-8
In this unique episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary will recap the previous episodes and share with you, our audience, what...
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Michael Kelly – All Agreements Are With Yourself
Duff Watkins speaks with Michael Kelly who is a communications guru. Michael talks to us about the lessons that have been significant in his career; " Every person is fighting...
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Rod Mewing – Business Is Not Personal
This week Jeffery Wang speaks with Rod Mewing. Rod looks back at his significant career and shares the lessons that were most influential with us.
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Jack Milligan – Shine Your Shoes
This week Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Jack Milligan. Jack is an Author, Lecturer, Business Leader, HR Professional and Community Leader. Jack is passionate about all things HR and shares...
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André Alphonso – Collect Adventures Not Things
In this week's episode, Duff Watkins speaks with André Alphonso. André shares his 10 lessons with us "Don’t eat your lunch on the way to work", "Banish psychic vampires", "Collect...
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Ten Lessons – Recap Ep 1-4
In this unique episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary will recap Ep 1 - 4 and share with you, our audience,...
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Matt Bai- People Make YOU Feel the Way THEY Feel
Hear top US political reporter MATT BAI explain why, “People make YOU feel the way THEY feel”, “Life is in the re-write”, “Look away from the ball”, and 7 other...
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Ligia-McLean- Turn an obstacle into an advantage
On this episode, our host Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Aerospace professional Ligia McLean. Ligia shares valuable lessons she learned that have helped her advance her career.
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George Bradt -There are only three interview questions and you need to know them
On this episode, our host Dr Duff Watkins speaks with best selling author, Forbes.com columnist and onboarding guru George Bradt. George shares lessons for how to secure that dream position...
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Dr Duff Watkins – Never Engage in Civil War
Hot off the press is this weeks interview with Dr Duff Watkins. In this episode we discuss the value of self awareness, the importance of telling your self the truth...
Read MoreTerry Tucker – What you leave behind is what you weave in the hearts of others
Terry Tucker is a motivational speaker and author. He explains why you should ”Be part of something bigger than yourself”, why you should “Control your mind or it will control...
Read MoreBrad Chan – Success is intentional
On this episode Brad Chan explains the importance of “living your values” why being an Introvert is a superpower” and how “Challenges are opportunities” along with more lessons learned. Hosted...
Read MoreMitch Bolnick – “Respect your elders” is a cliche, but listening to them might save you
Mitch Bolnick is a CEO, Author and Mentor. He explains how “Good communication is at the heart of all success”, how “Loyalty comes from trust” and why we should “Plan...
Read MoreZach Schaefer – Think in terms of time design, not time management.
Zach Schaefer is a CEO, Founder, Speaker, Author, and Professor. He shares how to “Live a meaningful life”, how “Forgiveness massages a pulled mental muscle” and tells us why we...
Read MoreZoe Fragou – Stop starting. Start finishing
Zoe Fragou is an organizational Psychologist and explains why” everything is a negotiation”, why you should “focus on your strengths”, how “pettiness stalls your career” and much more. Hosted by...
Read MoreMartin Salama-Reframe Your Meaning Of L.I.F.E
Martin Salama is a CEO, Founder and Business Coach. He explains why we should “Reframe our meaning of L.I.F.E”, he discloses the “true meaning of Rationalize and how it's self-sabotaging...
Read More100th Episode – 1000 Lessons Learned
We’ve made it to 100 episodes. That’s 1000 Lessons Learned! Our hosts Diana White, Siebe Van Der Zee, Jeffery Wang and Robert Hossary are joined by team member Yi Wang...
Read MoreFaris Aranki – What are your 3 adjectives?
Faris Aranki tells us why we should “Run towards the wrecking ball”, reminds us that the “Platinum rule is better than the golden rule “and asks us “what are your...
Read MoreDr Nora Gold – Create Space For Creativity
Dr Nora Gold asks us “If not now, when?”, explains why we need to “be kind to ourselves”, that “You define success” and more. Hosted by Siebe Van Der Zee.
Read MoreDr Beverly Browning – DON’T isolate yourself when you are going through hard or trying times
Dr Beverly Browning shares her Do’s and Don’ts lessons; "DO appreciate yourself", "DON’T be hard on yourself when you make mistakes", "Do celebrate yourself" and more. Hosted by Diana White
Read MoreDr Dilip Jeste and Dr Samantha Boardman – Build the Habit of “Good Enough”
Dr Samantha Boardman and Dr Dilip Jeste discuss the techniques you can use to be wiser. Hosted by Duff Watkins
Read MoreKaren Loon – Don’t be scared to look in the mirror
Karen Loon shares her lessons about how "Our future is shaped by our past", that "Imposter syndrome is normal", why you should not "be scared to look in the mirror"...
Read MoreLink Duarte – Don’t let your mistakes ruin what you could be.
Link Duarte discusses why we should "Strive for excellence, not perfection " That we need to "Live your bliss " and explains why you shouldn't "let your mistakes ruin what...
Read MoreWilliam Sarni – The Power of Unreasonable People
William Sarni discusses why we should "Do good things" That we need to "Learn to say No or Hell Yeah" and explains the power of unreasonable people. Hosted by Siebe...
Read MoreKeith Rowe – Don’t just talk. Question, Listen, and Watch!
Keith Rowe explains how "EQ Trumps IQ Every Time", that "There Is A Difference Between Leadership Versus Management" and tells us about "The New Business Opportunity - Customer Service". Hosted...
Read MoreRon Higgs – Don’t call yourself an expert unless your peers describe you that way
Ron Higgs tells us that "You can learn from anyone", that you should "Solve more problems than you create" and why we should "Embrace gratitude". Hosted by Diana White
Read MoreBaishakhi Connor – Workaholism is an addiction, don’t wear it as a badge of honour
Baishakhi Connor explains how " It all starts with belief", why you should "Chase your dreams, but don’t become captive to them" and that "Things happen, it isn’t the end...
Read MoreEllen Ruppel Shell – Question Received Wisdom
Ellen Ruppel Shell tells us why you "Should rise above your assumptions", why we should "Question received wisdom" and " Don’t take business matters personally " hosted by Duff Watkins.
Read MoreRachna Nath – Patience is a virtue but can become a vice if you practice it too much
Rachna Nath tells us why we " Should believe that destiny will lead us", why we "Shouldn't be afraid of failure" and that " If you believe in something, make...
Read MoreOliver Burkeman – Everyone is totally just winging it
Oliver Burkeman tells us how "The ability to tolerate minor discomfort is a superpower" why we should "Let things take the time they take" why it's important to "Seek enlargement...
Read MoreAlberto Esparza – Leadership is defined by the community
Alberto Esparza discusses why you should not be "Afraid to Fail", how "It's Never Personal" and why you should "Embrace Negativity" hosted by Siebe Van Der Zee
Read MoreDr Helen Holton – Forgiveness frees you to live stronger
Dr Helen Holton tells us why "Dreams deferred don't mean dreams denied", how "We're not born resilient; but we build it throughout our lives" and how "Forgiveness frees you to...
Read MoreStan Rodski – Your Current View of Situation Does Not Equal The Best View of Situation
Stan Rodski shows us how to "Recalibrate our brain"; shares how to "Harness your brain power" and explains the power of the "Napucino". Hosted by Duff Watkins.
Read MoreDenis Leclerc – Don’t judge people too fast, we have more in common than we are different.
Professor Denis Leclerc tells us why you should “Learn something new every day”; why you should ”Learn to slow down; why it’s important not to “judge people too fast” and more....
Read MoreDr Belle Liang and Tim Klein – Listen for YOUR call, not someone else’s
Dr Belle Liang and Tim Klein share with us the reason we should "Adopt a purpose mindset, not a passion or performance mindset"; how we can "Add value as a...
Read MoreJames Pennebaker – Be Your Own Therapist With WORDS
Professor James Pennebaker tells us how we can use words to better understand ourselves and others. He shares how expressive writing can be a tool to understand trauma. Hosted by...
Read MoreGaj Ravichandra – Assume There Is 1% Of Truth In Everything
Gaj Ravichandra speaks with Jeffery Wang about why you should "Run towards success rather than away from failure", why you should always "Assume there is 1% of truth in everything...
Read MoreDr Joel Martin – The most important superpowers you have is the ability to choose
Dr Joel Martin shares why "Feedback is a gift"; what your greatest "Superpower" is; why you should "Learn to love and laugh a lot"; and more. Hosted by Diana White
Read MoreAndré Haspels – Give people trust and space
Ambassador André Haspels talks about why you should "Savor unique experiences"; the benefits of "Being modest" why you should "Make others look good" and more. Hosted by Siebe Van Der...
Read MoreBob Mankoff – Work in batches of 10
Bob Mankoff, Cartoonist and Author talks about why you should "Work in batches of 10", why "Talent is the ticket but that's all " and the why you should "Appreciate...
Read MoreSteve Okun – Knowing your value – lets you advocate for yourself
Steve Okun, CEO and Media Commentator talks about why you "Should make yourself unique", why "No job is beneath you" and the importance of "betting on yourself". Hosted by Robert...
Read MoreHéctor Colón-Listening is more important than providing feedback
Héctor Colón is a Servant-CEO and shares his lessons about how "Humility is at the core of serving others", why "Perseverance is about not giving up" and "Listening is more...
Read MoreMegumi Miki – Fitting in is overrated but standing out can be hard work
Megumi Miki tells us why " Fitting in is overrated", why " There are no ‘bad’ emotions", and why you should " Get comfortable with solitude" and other lessons it...
Read MoreDr. CJ Cornell – If you want someone to rave about your idea, call your mother
Dr CJ Cornell shares his experience as an entrepreneur and tells us why we should "Be Up Front" why we "Don't play hard to get" and "If you have to...
Read MoreProfessor Howard Nusbaum – You won’t be wise without understanding others
Professor Howard C. Nusbaum shares why " It’s wiser to listen than to speak ", how " Curiosity fuels wisdom ", how " Wisdom is a skill you can learn...
Read MorePaul Penzone – Leave people with the feeling they are respected
Sheriff Paul Penzone shares why "Authority is privilege, not entitlement", the importance to "Never forget others opened the door for you to walk through", why you should "Listen more, talk...
Read MoreEric Miller-Know Your Own Bias
Eric Miller, CEO, Entrepreneur, Director speaks with us why it's important "To learn your tools", "Never to understate the importance of a network", why we should "Know our own bias"...
Read MoreDavid Redhill – Be a sponge, a squirrel and be a thief.
David Redhill speaks to us about why you should "never say no to opportunity", the importance of " Being a sponge, a squirrel and be a thief" and why you "shouldn't...
Read MoreRobyn Henderson – Be clear on your Why? What? How?
Robyn has authored and contributed to more than 30 books on networking, business and career development and self-esteem building over the last 20+ years. She speaks with us about why...
Read MoreIndira Jeffrey – Empowering Women Means Empowering Whole Communities
Indira Jeffrey is a global leader for women empowerment, strategic planner, and innovator. She shares her wisdom and tells us why you should " Get out of your comfort zone",...
Read MoreRobin Reed – Stress Is Not A Badge Of Honour
Robin Reed is the co-founder and Principal with EmFluent, an Entrepreneur, professional speaker and coach. He speaks with us about why "Asking For Help Is A Strategy", why you should...
Read MoreRosaly Lopes – A Little Self-Promotion Is Fine
Dr Rosaly M. C. Lopes is Directorate Scientist for the Planetary Science Directorate and a Senior Research Scientist at NASA's Jet Propulsion Laboratory she tells us why we should "...
Read MoreBeng Yeoh – You Can Buy Talent But You Can’t Buy Integrity
Dr Beng Yeoh a board director and a has been a senior business leader for over 40 years. He shares why you should "Choose And Follow A Reliable Compass", how...
Read MoreMaryAnn Miller – Your Toughest Competition Is You
MaryAnn Miller is an accomplished c-suite leader. She shares why you should "Say Yes To New Opportunities ", how "Your Reality Can Be Your Dream " and that "Your Toughest...
Read MoreBrett Gilliland – What Got You Here Will Not Get You There
Brett Gilliland is the Co-Founder and CEO, Elite Entrepreneurs. He tells us about "The Power Of Co-Creating A Future WITH Your Team", the "The Best Way To Get Happy Customers"...
Read MoreNiels Marquardt – If You Can’t Stay Out Of The Way, You Have Hired The Wrong People
Ambassador Niels Marquardt is a former American diplomat who now serves as the first-ever diplomat in residence at Lewis & Clark College. He shares lessons about the "90% rule" ,why...
Read MoreJeff Bleich – There is no good relationship advice
Jeff Bleich is the Chief Legal Office at Cruise speaks to us about why you should "Be Useful ", how "Nothing Appreciates Like Appreciation "and other lessons it took him...
Read MoreRobert Hossary – It’s not who you know. It’s who knows you!
Robert Hossary has been in executive management for more than 30 years. He shares why "It's not who you know but who knows you", how to "become indispensable" and the...
Read MoreCindy Banton-As Women Leaders, Femininity Is An Asset, Not A Detriment
Dr Cindy Banton is a Founder, CEO, Author and Board Director. She tells us why we should "Take risks!", why we should "Know our value and worth" and why "As...
Read MoreKatie and Gay Hendricks – Authenticity is Sexy
Dr Gay Hendricks and his wife Dr Kathlyn Hendricks have written 40+ books, trained thousands of coaches, appeared on Oprah, and hosted seminars around the globe. In this episode they...
Read MoreAndrew Browning – There is nothing new under the sun
Dr Andrew Browning AM is an Australian trained obstetrician who has spent his entire professional career volunteering in Africa as a medical missionary specializing in obstetric fistula surgery. Listen to...
Read MoreArthur Valkieser – Never Give Up. Resistance Belongs To Innovation
Arthur Valkieser is the CEO and Co-Founder of Hydraloop. Arthur speaks to us about why " earning money is never the goal". why you should " believe in what you...
Read MoreDon Peppers – Jobs deliver pay checks, Careers deliver purpose
Don Peppers is a best-selling author, blogger, widely-acclaimed keynote speaker and global CX authority. He speaks to us about how "Life is not a contest, no one takes “first place” ",...
Read MoreJeffery Wang – Finding fulfilment is more important than happiness
Jeffery is the founder of Professional Development Forum, and a regular host on 10 Lessons it Took Me 50 Years to Learn. Jeff tells us why we should "Run towards...
Read MoreConrad Taylor – Nothing beats perseverance
Conrad Taylor grew up in Guyana, South America. Now a retired executive. Conrad has over thirty-five years of hands-on experience leading change in the United States. He shares his story...
Read More50th Episode of 10 Lessons it Took Me 50 Years to Learn
Well we made it to 50 Episodes! That's 500 lessons that we have shared with the world. In this episode we share some of your feedback and comments. Thank you...
Read MoreBarry Nalebuff-Good people act Badly because of wrong incentives
Barry Nalebuff is Milton Steinbach Professor at Yale SOM where for thirty years he has taught negotiation, innovation, strategy, and game theory. He speaks with us on why "Important projects...
Read MoreRobert Lustig-Speak to the ventriloquist, not the dummy
Dr Robert Lustig has fostered a global discussion of metabolic health and nutrition. He speaks with us abut why you should "speak to the ventriloquist and not the dummy", how...
Read MoreJim Carroll – Don’t tell me how good you are – Show me
Jim Carroll is one of Australia’s most experienced media executives. Jim shares why it's important to "Be decisive and organized", why you should "Listen widely" and the importance of "Being...
Read MoreTommy Tomlinson – Nobody does great work alone
Tommy Tomlinson is a Journalist, Author and Podcaster and tells us why "you should keep your word"; how "life is like baseball" and why shouldn't "spend time with jerks". Hosted...
Read MoreBas Boorsma – The Current Paradigm Shift:The Network Paradigm
Bas Boorsma has been specialising in smart cities for over 20 years. He shares with us "The magic of conflict resolution", why we should learn to "Be comfortable with being...
Read MoreEllen Langer – 1+1 doesn’t always equal 2
Ellen Langer is a professor in the Psychology Department at Harvard University and she speaks with us about how "Certainty is a mindless illusion" why " 1 + 1 doesn't...
Read MoreMark Gell – Don’t believe everything you have heard
Mark Gell is the partner of a PR Agency Reputation Edge. Mark tells us why it's important that we "Listen and don't talk", how we should ask ourselves "What would...
Read MoreRaj Raghunathan-If you’re so smart, why aren’t you happy?
Raj Raghunathan, author of “If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t You Happy?” is currently professor of marketing at the University of Texas School of Business. In this episode he tells...
Read MoreOri Eisen – You can do anything if you don’t care who gets the credit
Ori Eisen has spent the last two decades fighting online crime and he is respected for his business knowledge and leadership. In this episode, Ori tells us why you must...
Read MoreJulian Zelizer – Just START! You don’t need all the answers to begin
Julian Zelizer is a professor of political history and an author at Princeton University and the co-host of the podcast Politics & Polls. He speaks with us about how "Life...
Read MoreMary Labrie – To lead you have to learn to follow
Mary Labrie is a writer and producer of radio, podcast and film. Mary is Director and Principal of strategy consulting firm, Clear Advantage. She discusses why "We all respond to...
Read MoreSiebe Van Der Zee – Get over it! Don’t create mental barriers for yourself.
Siebe Van Der Zee is President of Vanderzee & Associates, Executive Search & Coaching. For 28 years, Siebe has served as Honorary Consul of the Kingdom of the Netherlands in...
Read MorePeter Thornhill – Fear is based on ignorance; don’t be frightened, be smart
Peter Thornhill speaks to us about: why you “Don’t stay in jobs you don’t like”, why you should “Rent your lifestyle" and how to “Make money your slave” along with...
Read MoreDavid Chalke – Become your own disruptor
David Chalke is one of Australia’s leading Social Analysts. He speaks with us about R E S P E C T, why we should "Build a shed" and why it's...
Read MoreDilip Jeste – Anyone and Everyone Can Become WISER
Dr. Dilip V. Jeste is the author of 'Wiser: the scientific roots of wisdom' and speaks to us about how "If you think you’re WISE, you aren’t" and tells us...
Read MoreSpecial Episode – What is Wisdom?
In this special episode the four of us, Jeffery Wang, Siebe Van Der Zee, Dr. Duff Watkins, and Robert Hossary discuss the deep topic of wisdom. We ask the question...
Read MoreNiki Luijsterburg – Leaders are storytellers
LT COL Joost ‘Niki’ Luijsterburg speaks to us this week about how the best "leaders are story tellers", how there are "only two intrinsic motivators - Love or Fear" ,...
Read MoreFloyd Ormsbee – Never let them see you sweat
Dr Floyd Ormsbee shares some valuable lessons with us in this episode. Why you should "never let them see you sweat". That you can "disagree but learn from each other"...
Read MoreAndrew Bacevich – Never feel sorry for the people in charge
In this episode, Andrew Bacevich shares with us why "Ambition causes blindness", why you should "Never feel sorry for the people in charge" and describes the "Greatest sin of all"....
Read MoreAllan Parker – Agreement is always available
Allan Parker explains why "you hear more when you're honest", how "Words produce predictable outcomes" and eight other gems of wisdom. Hosted by Duff Watkins
Read MoreVikas Tiku – Career highlights don’t get on your tombstone
Vikas Tiku explains why you should "listen more than you speak", why once you've made a decision you shouldn't second guess" and that "your career highlights will never make it...
Read MoreJim Longley – Life is not fair, but don’t just ‘suck it up’
Jim Longley tells us how to use "The ten-year rule", how "Life is not fair, but don’t just ‘suck it up’" and why "A life of service is the only...
Read MoreJeremy Richman – Buy now or…
Jeremy Richman shares why "People don’t have to like you to respect you", why you should "Let a good cause find you and embrace it" and "What you say may...
Read MoreSteven Zylstra – Mistake, rinse, don’t repeat
This week Steven Zylstra reminds us "Yes, Dad really was right", why there's "No need to go it alone" and 8 other lessons he has learned over 50 Years. Hosted...
Read MoreMatt Doherty – The Six Knows of Leadership
Matt Doherty explains the "Six Knows of Leadership", how "Forgiveness is how to free yourself" and why you should "Recruit Your Personal Board of Directors" among his 10Lessons. Hosted by...
Read MoreAndrew Tyndale – Play the Long Game
Andrew Tyndale speaks with Jeffery Wang this week. Explaining his lessons of why you should "Find your tribe", the power of "Filling you heart with gratitude" and the benefit of...
Read MoreEddie Grobler – What’s Your Decency Quotient
This week Duff speaks with Eddie Grobler. Eddie shares how "the answer is in your hands", why you shouldn't "Jerk the knee or shoot the mouth" and why "Your mindset...
Read MoreDiana White – Be prepared to walk away.
This week Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Diana White. Diana has a wealth of experience and eagerly shares her 10 lessons with Siebe. Dianna tells us why we should...
Read MoreJohn Collee – Find Somebody Who’s Done it Before
"Find someone who's done it before," says JOHN COLLEE, Oscar nominated writer, on this episode of 10 Lessons it Took Me 50 Years to Learn. Also, 'why we have 2...
Read MoreTen Lessons – Recap Ep 13 – 16
In this episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary review episodes that featured Alan Haselden, Bill Guy, Guillaume Lucci and Jacob Butler....
Read MoreJacob Butler – Don’t Wait for Change
This week Siebe brings you 10 Lessons from Jacob Butler. Jacob shares lessons that his culture has taught him. Lessons like why you should "Invest in lasting impact" and why...
Read MoreGuillaume Lucci – Leave the money…take the opportunity
Duff Watkins interviews Guillaume Lucci this week to discover 10 more lessons to share with you. Guillaume tells us "why we should "Get ready to fail", why "Perfect is a...
Read MoreBill Guy – The Hiring Process is Broken
Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Bill Guy this week. Bill discusses the lessons he learned throughout his career in Executive Search and Consulting and shares insights into why "the...
Read MoreAlan Haselden – Can We Just Get to the Point?
Duff's guest this week is Alan Haselden. Alan had a long and successful corporate career before entering into local politics. Alan shares over 50 years of lessons with us such...
Read MoreTen Lessons – Recap Ep 9-12
In this episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary review episodes that featured Alan Kilfoyle, Garry Browne, Narelle Hooper and Brad Casper....
Read MoreBrad Casper – Leadership is not a Title
On this episode Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Brad Casper and learns some valuable lessons. Brad tells us that "The best way to predict the future is to create...
Read MoreNarelle Hooper – Look out for Landmines
This week Jeffery Wang speaks with Narelle Hooper one of Australia's leading journalists. Narelle discusses her valuable insight that she has gleaned over her career. Listen to hear why you...
Read MoreGarry Browne – Learn to be Vulnerable
Listen to Duff discuss the 10 lessons that Garry Browne learned over his 50 years. Invaluable information such as: " To be the fastest doesn’t mean you’re the winner" ,...
Read MoreAlan Kilfoyle – You Can Recover
This week Robert Hossary speaks with our guest Alan Kilfoyle who shares some of his valuable lessons that helped him navigate his career and life for the past 5 plus...
Read MoreTen Lessons – Recap Ep 5-8
In this unique episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary will recap the previous episodes and share with you, our audience, what...
Read MoreMichael Kelly – All Agreements Are With Yourself
Duff Watkins speaks with Michael Kelly who is a communications guru. Michael talks to us about the lessons that have been significant in his career; " Every person is fighting...
Read MoreRod Mewing – Business Is Not Personal
This week Jeffery Wang speaks with Rod Mewing. Rod looks back at his significant career and shares the lessons that were most influential with us.
Read MoreJack Milligan – Shine Your Shoes
This week Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Jack Milligan. Jack is an Author, Lecturer, Business Leader, HR Professional and Community Leader. Jack is passionate about all things HR and shares...
Read MoreAndré Alphonso – Collect Adventures Not Things
In this week's episode, Duff Watkins speaks with André Alphonso. André shares his 10 lessons with us "Don’t eat your lunch on the way to work", "Banish psychic vampires", "Collect...
Read MoreTen Lessons – Recap Ep 1-4
In this unique episode the four of us, Dr. Duff Watkins, Siebe Vanderzee, Jeffery Wang, and Robert Hossary will recap Ep 1 - 4 and share with you, our audience,...
Read MoreMatt Bai- People Make YOU Feel the Way THEY Feel
Hear top US political reporter MATT BAI explain why, “People make YOU feel the way THEY feel”, “Life is in the re-write”, “Look away from the ball”, and 7 other...
Read MoreLigia-McLean- Turn an obstacle into an advantage
On this episode, our host Siebe Van Der Zee speaks with Aerospace professional Ligia McLean. Ligia shares valuable lessons she learned that have helped her advance her career.
Read MoreGeorge Bradt -There are only three interview questions and you need to know them
On this episode, our host Dr Duff Watkins speaks with best selling author, Forbes.com columnist and onboarding guru George Bradt. George shares lessons for how to secure that dream position...
Read MoreDr Duff Watkins – Never Engage in Civil War
Hot off the press is this weeks interview with Dr Duff Watkins. In this episode we discuss the value of self awareness, the importance of telling your self the truth...
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